It’s coming! Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to express love to your other half with a romantic meal, thoughtful gifts, and flowers. However, is that the only way to celebrate?
Let’s step outside the norm and try something a little different.
Some couples, well men in particular might feel under pressure to spend loads of cash on Valentine’s Day. They might not have it in the budget but will make an exception to show that they made an effort. Maybe it’s because this day is widely celebrated and captured on social media with millions of videos, pictures of huge bouquets of roses and lavish meals in the best restaurants. It’s all great to see for those who can pay for it and they should truly enjoy it. But if you honestly can’t afford it don’t try to mimic others to end up being broke.
“Valentine’s Day’s true sentiment is about focusing on the time you spend as a couple to celebrate your relationship.”
Maybe your partner would appreciate a home-cooked meal with a rose and some lit candles. What I’m trying to express is not all romantic gestures need to cost the earth, sometimes a single well-thought-out gift can mean the world to someone.
1 – DIY Wine or Whisky Tasting🥃
A do-it-yourself wine or whisky tasting experience adds an element of personal touch and discovery to the experience. This can be done in the comfort of your own home with the option of including a cooked meal. Begin by selecting a range of wines or whisky, spanning from different varieties, countries, and styles. Create a cosy ambience with soft lighting and suitable glassware for each drink. Take a moment to appreciate the colour, clarity, and viscosity before delving into the aromas. Swirl, sniff, and identify the unique scents, allowing your senses to unravel the layers of each pour. When it comes to tasting, savour the flavours and textures, paying attention to the balance and sweetness. Keep a notebook handy to write down your thoughts before you get too tipsy.
2 – Go Bowling 🎳
A bowling date night is a perfect blend of competition and fun, providing an opportunity for couples to show their playful sides. The dark-lit bowling alley adds a touch of charm, setting the stage for a relaxed yet exciting atmosphere. Between turns, there are loads of time for light-hearted banter, a bit of teasing, and maybe even a romantic bet on who can score the most strikes. With the thrill of the game and the warmth of your partner’s company, a bowling date night promises a memorable and entertaining experience that beats the traditional dinner-and-movie routine.
3 – Go out to breakfast (for morning people) ☕️
There are no rules out there saying you can’t have a date in the morning, especially for those who work evening shifts. Switch things up as the morning is set to bring refreshing energy. The simplicity of breakfast encourages a laid-back and authentic experience. Make an effort beforehand to find a unique café maybe out-of-town, not just your usual Costa Coffee or Starbucks. Whether you sip on a coffee, eat pastries, or enjoy a full English breakfast, this experience of breaking bread in the morning should give you a sense of togetherness to last the rest of the day.
4 – Recreate your first date 😍
Recreating your first date can be a sentimental journey that can reignites the spark off those initial intimate moments. Start by revisiting the memory of location where it all started, whether it was cinema date, a walk in park, or a nice restaurant where you shared your first meal. Try to replicate the details, such as cooking the same dishes or drinks that you enjoyed that day. Revisit the conversations and laughter, reminiscing about the shared jokes and special moments. Consider incorporating elements that made the first date unique, like a particular song or activity. By recreating your first date, you not only celebrate your journey together but also create new memories that deepen your connection.
5 – Get your favorite take-away and drive to a scenic location for the sunset. 🥡
Pick up your favorite take-away, maybe a meal that has a sentimental value or reflects your shared tastes (it could even be a pizza). Then, drive to a scenic location where you can witness the beauty of the sunset together. As the sun dips below the horizon, play your favourite songs and enjoy this intimate setting. Create cherished memories while enjoying each other’s company, making it a unique and romantic way to spend Valentine’s Day.
What ever you decide on, ensure the day is all about you and your partner and not about the money.
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